*the dreamer*

The dreamer is intent upon flight from reality. He achieves great things in his fantasy world, where he receives recognition and honors.

His dreams are a substitute for achievement and represent some kind of compensation for his lack of success with and in the real world.

The dreamer usually likes movies and stories and listening music because they stroke his imagination with new settings and material for future reveries.

Eventually, he creates a comfortable world which he can become “somebody”

The dreamer has ambition more than his abilities could reach, and he has to compensate himself in fantasy for his disappointment in reality.

In dreaming, he can reach the impossible thing that in real life, he can’t!

What he need most is courage to accept him as he is. “People are about as happy as they decide that they are going to be”

Self-Acceptance

He is at home with his body, his tender as well as hostile emotions, thoughts, and desires. Not only is he at home with what he has already experience within himself, but he is open to new sensation, and deeper emotional reactions, changing thoughts and desires.

He accepts his inner condition as forever changing. His ultimate destiny as a human being, that is what he will become at the end of his life is unknown.

He accepts what he is, physically, emotionally and intellectually. He knows that what he is, as far as it is known to him—is good. He does not dwell in dreams of what he wants to be and spend the rest of his life convincing him that he is these things. He has listened to, explored and loved what actually is.

Each new day experience of himself will be as new as the day itself because he is forever changing, always a new person, revealed in a constantly changing world. He trusts his own abilities and resources, confident that he can adopt and cope with all the challenges that his life will present.

This kind of acceptance empowers him to live fully and face confidently the difficulties if ones life and the complicated world!

_The Clown_

Clown is, like most of us, seeking some sort of recognition and attention. The sadness is that he thinks he can gain notice only by playing the fool for others.

Deeper than this, it may be that he identifies with his act and tries to evade reality by taking nothing seriously. Clowning or being other person is sometimes an escape device from reality.

The clown doesn’t know how to handle ones difficulties or to handle himself in a serious situation or how to react to sorrow and sadness, so he avoid or escape from reality.

In dealing with others, his clowning serves as an adequate defensive mask to prevent others from knowing who he really is. He would rather laugh and joke than to face the grim realities of life.

Basically, the problem is that he cannot distinguish between himself as a person and being other person.

“Be true to your self” is the best thing to do. Because that’s the only way to find your true happiness in life and your not hiding to everybody anymore!

--ALL ABOUT LIFE--

Life is beautiful and yet it is not a bed of roses. In life, you experience ups and downs, different emotions and many uncountable blessings and successes.

To some people life seems to be hard, cruel and harsh. These people view life as a punishment. To them, nothing that they do can ever be good. They sometimes resort in committing crimes, doing harm to others to avenge their ill fortune. They lost sense of direction which resort them to commit suicide, that's the only way that they can escape the sad reality. They can't appreciate the beauty that life offers. if only they could see the positive side that life brings. 

But there are those who see life as a challenge, a channel of discovery and innovation, a prospect for success and a gateway to wealth. And for anyone to succeed in life, one must be ready to show the stuff he/she is made of. He must be ready to sacrifice his time and build up his mind frame toward success. To them life is sweet and kind. No matter the situation these people find themselves, they keep pressing on, believing in a cause, a cause to succeed, and get the most out of life.

The will to succeed or fail lies within you. You can live life to the fullest with utmost satisfaction and fulfillment if you determine with all your mind, body and soul to succeed. On the other hand, life can be miserable to you if you take everything for granted and wait on fate to play itself out.

Life is easy, yet many people rush and miss what they want to achieve in life. Don’t rush in life. Take one step at a time. Steady, balance, mark and shoot. And before you know it, the sky will become the beginning of your success.

For me, life is a blessing that must be cherished. We only have one life so we must live it to the fullest. Have fun, be crazy, be weird, be you! Go out and screw up, you're going to anyway so you might enjoy the process. Life is a series of learned experiences. Don't try to be perfect, just be a perfect example of being a human being.

"Open your eyes- to the beauty around you. Open your mind- to the wonders of life. Open your heart- to those who love you. And always- be true to yourself."

"SisTer LOve"

Sisters are connected at the heart, and their loyalty to one another is so strong. No one can ever break that bond. They don’t give up on each other easily…because of their love to each other.

Whether they live near each other or far apart, sisters walk together through life. They are there for each other no matter what….sharing everything!

Sisters aren’t afraid to break rules for each other. They defend each other. They cried together and laughed together. They know each other secrets. They forgive each other when they make mistakes, and they almost read each others mind.

Sisters teach each other lesson about life especially love life. Sisters are there for each other through everything that matters.

My sister brought so much joy in my life that when we are together finds me renewing. Let me take this chance to say THANK YOU for everything----the joy and love you’ve shared with me. Every time we are together is the cherish moment of me.

No one can ever take the place of a sister in my heart. Thank you for being mine. Love you so much SIS.!

_Believe In Me_

I can do it? Others can do, why should I? There comes in my mind every time I encounter new challenges in my life.

God gives me courage, the skill and talent and a choice of what I can be….  So that I can reach my goal and to be a successful.

But I will amount to nothing unless I can believe in me.

He gave strength to my arms and a brain to use and vision for me to see.

But my dreams will be empty wishes until I can believe in me.

He gave love and supportive friends and family.

But these will be wasted unless I can believe in me. So let me live life boldly---not boastful---but eagerly!

The world is a great arena ….the battle of failure and success. Life is full of surprises and I make sure that I should win the game of life because I BELIEVE IN ME!

TRue Meaning of FRiendship

True friendship is unexplained heart connection between two people. They may not know exactly why they become friends, but they know that their presence in each other life is important.

True friendship is one of the most valuable treasures anyone could have. It creates a feeling of unconditional acceptance between two people who allow themselves to share their stories.

True friends are sensitive to each others own perception and opinion, but they don't demand each other to change. They always want the best for each others life. This kind of friendship is effort less...no rules to follow!

True friends are connected at the heart, and there commitment to there friendship is permanent. Others say that "friends are come and go", but I don't believe in that, because we are the one who make are choice to happen.

True friends believe in each other. They talk about things that they may not even talk to there families about. They have been there no matter what happen...through ups and down.

True friendship exist between two people who understand each other and know how to communicate with each other by not often saying a word. But sometimes we still have to hear the words and see the actions at the same time...because words without action is empty.!